I don’t do clingy.  In fact, I can’t stand clingy people.  Clingers are the people who you just can’t seem to get rid of.  Stage five clingers, as some call them. These are the people who call you on the phone, and ramble on, and on. These are the people who try to soak up every moment of your time, and with whom the feeling is not reciprocated.  When your around a clinger, you feel like your head is going to explode, and you just want to run away, and fast.  Often, the clingy people keep popping up in your life.  You think they are gone, and then bam, they reappear!  Clingy behavior is so unappealing to me. Yet for some reason, I tend to attract this type of person.  Perhaps it’s because I’m too friendly? Sometimes I think my friendliness is mistaken as an invitation for friendship. You really have to be careful these days because some people just don’t get boundaries.  Don’t get me wrong because I, myself am clingy at times.  I think everyone can be.  I’m talking about the people who are consistently this way.  All of my close friends are far from clingy.  I think that’s what I like about them.  I very much like a challenge, in every aspect of my life.  We want what we can’t have, it’s just human nature. Who wants to be around someone who’s so easily accessible?  So, cling on oh clinger…cling on.

Tags: Friends, Friendship, Stage 5 Clinger

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